Things get better in March

Spring arrives, and the Roamers finally get out of the house!

Knowing that we needed to “train”–I use this word loosely–for our April walking holiday, we decided to spend the first day of March walking. We headed across the river to the Marché du Lez, an indoor/outdoor market and shopping venue with a huge food court, to try the Belgian food recommended by our friends Dave and Sue. After that meal–pork cutlets, frites, and wine–we definitely needed more walking, so after browsing the shops we walked to the médiatheque and (after three years!) finally got our library cards. 

A rather heavy lunch!

A few days later my friend Mari and I headed out for our Second Annual Nanas’ Trip to Paris. If you read this blog, you might remember that we inaugurated this trip in February 2024, and we had so much fun we decided to make it an annual thing. On the agenda this year were the same lovely hotel as last year, three exhibitions, plenty of delicious food and wine, and lots of walking. Our first stop, after dropping off our bags, was the Louvre Couture exhibit.

One of the gorgeous gowns in the Louvre Couture

This exhibit is unique in my experience, as the gowns are displayed throughout a main wing of the Louvre and are set up to blend in with the permanent exhibits. If you make it to Paris during the exhibit, I hope you’ll get a chance to see it.

I can’t remember the designer, but this gown was gorgeous!

The entire skirt of this gown was made of feathers!

Our hotel concierge recommend several restaurants for dinner, and we chose Brasserie Rosie, a lively restaurant nearby. After we were seated we noticed that we were by far the oldest people in the crowded restaurant! It’s a hip (is that still a word?) hangout for people in their 20s, and we had a grand time there. My favorite thing was the cocktail napkin.

Brasserie Rosie cocktail napkin

The next day was full, as we had two exhibits, both at the Grand Palais, some shopping, and of course food and wine on the agenda. First up was the Chiharu Shiota retrospective. Her magnificent yarn installations defy description.

Just one of the yarn installations in the Chiharu Shiota retrospective

This amazing Japanese artist, who lives in Berlin, had paintings, yarn installations, opera set designs, videos of performance art, and much more. Margi and I were especially fascinated, and moved, by a huge installation featuring dollhouse-sized miniatures in various scenes, all connected by yarn. The yarn was featured throughout the exhibition, and for me it brought to mind how interconnected all things are–especially people.

This photo shows about half of the miniature installation.

After this experience, we needed an emotional break, so we headed out for a bit of shopping and lunch before returning to the Grand Palais for the Dolce & Gabbana exhibit. I highly recommend clicking the link, as my photos don’t do justice to this remarkable experience.

The chandelier room in the Dolce & Gabbana experience

The exhibition took us through many themed rooms, each displaying gorgeous creations. The ten immersive rooms featured music, art, religion, interior design, and even one of the D&G ateliers, where we could glimpse their working environment.

This mannequin is looking into a D&G-decorated SMEG fridge!

The exhibit included shoes, accessories, headpieces, and some truly beautiful jewelry.

This earrings are carved with an excerpt from Frances Hodgson Burnett’s The Secret Garden!

It was a lot to take in, and I’d love to see it all again. If this exhibition comes to a city near you, I highly recommend it!

Beautiful!

All of our meals were great, but my favorite was at a restaurant that Margi and her husband Michael had visited before, Le Square Trousseau. This cozy bistro, founded in the early 1900s, was beautiful and convivial. The service was excellent, and we loved the food. Highly recommended!

My favorite restaurant from this trip

We are already looking forward to next year’s trip! Back home, Phil and I had a quiet week before a special treat the following weekend: the Opéra Orchestre gala! We’ve always loved opera (my first was La Traviata in 8th grade), and in Montpellier we get to attend regularly. Since Roderick Cox, a brilliant young American, was chosen as the new maestro, we’ve become fans.

The Roamers at the gala

What a fun evening that was! We were greeted with cocktails, Champagne, and passed hors d’ouevres as we roamed through the building. There was an art auction (I kept my hands down but enjoyed watching the bidding!) interspersed by musical performances in the theatre. The dinner that followed was delicious, and we enjoyed more performances throughout.

A beautiful, musical, delicious evening

Like January and February, March was mostly cold, windy, and rainy. One nice day we drove to La Grande Motte, a resort town by the sea, for lunch and a stroll. After lunch the wind began whipping up yet another storm!

Storm clouds looming over La Grande Motte

One day we received a notice from the post office that we owed 13 euros on a package. Phil collected it and handed it to me. “What is this???” I asked, “Read the label,” he replied. The label said CANNED BEANS. What??? Then he told me to look at the sender’s name. It was Michael, our friend who visited us last fall with his partner Sara. We were delighted to see what was inside!

Ro-tel, martini olives, and beautiful cocktail napkins–what a lovely and unexpected gift from our friends!

That same day, my birthday present arrived. I’d had my eye on this beautiful buffet for our entryway for many weeks, and after lots of searching we (well, I) finally decided to order it. It was very securely shipped, and unpacking it was a workout!

Just a portion of the packaging from our buffet!

The following Sunday we met friends Jo and Dennis for a tour of the Chateau Laurens, an architectural masterpiece we’d visited before. This time I was most fascinated with the stained glass in the study, and especially the portion featuring the sirens who sang sailors to their death.

The gorgeous stained glass doors in the study

The poem at the bottom of the scene reads, “Sirènes de la mer au sourire dégume, Aux yeux verts, aux cheveux docent les couchants. Votre charme est mortel ! Pour vos palais de brume Vous tentez d’arracher les hommes à leur champs Et vous perdez les fils des femmes par vos chants. Sirènes de la mer au sourire dégume.”

A rough translation (forgive my mistakes!):  “Sirens of the sea with disgusting smiles, with your green eyes, your soft hair that sweetens the sunsets. Your charm is deadly! For your palaces of mist you try to tear men from their fields and drown women’s sons with your songs. Sirens of the sea with disgusting smiles.”

One day last week I took a different route to my French lesson and came across one of the many WWII memorial plaques one can see throughout our city. The war is still very much present in the minds of the French people, and we have been touched by how they honor their dead.

A plaque honoring a concentration camp victim

At the end of the week my friend Sandi and I ventured out to a tiny village in the mountains, where a British couple had announced they were giving away their extensive book collection. We enjoyed gorgeous scenery, selected a few books, and after coffee and a chat with Linda and Graeme began our 70-kilometer drive home. But we took a wrong turn! After too many hairpin curves and death-defying dropoffs, we realized that the GPS was steering us wrong and we turned around. Two hours later we arrived home, a bit shaken but glad for our adventure.

Giant ant sculptures along the route

The last event of March was the second annual fiesta hosted by friends Dave and Sue. They used to do this party every year in Chicago, and now they’ve brought the tradition to France. We’ve been honored to help with the party, along with friends Anne and John, and this year almost 40 guests enjoyed the fabulous repast.

Just part of the offerings on the buffet table

And that brings March to an end! We’re now enjoying beautiful spring weather and looking forward to fun times in April. Next weekend we’ll be participating in a resistance sing-along with people of various nationalities to protest against the awful things happening in the U.S. We’re grateful to be living in France with like-minded friends in these harrowing times.

What happened to february???

The Roamers stay home

Well, first of all, it rained. A lot. This has been the rainiest winter since we arrived in France–which only made us appreciate the beautiful days even more! Our friend Margi shared this gorgeous double rainbow photo taken from her terrace.

What an image!!!

One fun thing to do on rainy, cold winter days is to reflect on the fun we’ve had. Our friend Shelia sent this photo taken by our host at le Pat’ Daniels, the restaurant where we celebrated Shelia’s birthday last month. Pat insisted that we all give him the finger, so we did. Well, perhaps not ALL of us. . .

Hilarious fun being had

I didn’t get out much in February, due to the rain and also staying home for six days fighting off (successfully!) a respiratory bug, but I did make it to almost all of my French lessons (two private, one-hour lessons and two 1.5-hour conversation classes per week). There is a cute shop featuring handmade items on my route, and one day I had to stop to take a photo of the sewing doll in the window. Such creativity!

I especially like her spool-of-thread chapeau!

Phil has been painting almost every day. He keeps getting better and better, and since our visas don’t allow us to work in France, instead of selling his paintings he has been giving them to close friends. Linda and Brecka have created a “Phil Shroyer Gallery” in their beautiful apartment, featuring two of his works.

Linda and Brecka’s Phil Shroyer wall

After six days without leaving our apartment, I was a bit stir crazy and announced to Phil we were going on an outing (it’s winter school holidays here, so no French lessons for a week). We decided on a mini-road trip in Pic Saint-Loup, our local mountain. First stop was les Matelles, for lunch at Brasserie le Donjon. Les Matelles is a charming village by Le Lirou, a small river that feeds into the Lez, which runs through Montpellier near our apartment. 

Walking along the Lirou in Les Matelles

We wandered the tiny, steep streets, admiring the ancient stone houses in this medieval village, until the restaurant opened. I had to take a photo of a hilarious sign at a closed restaurant. 

The sign says, “On leave. Tired. Reopening March 6.”

Those of you who know me well may remember that one of my dearest friends, Gwyn Harwell, who died in 2007 at the age of 81, returned to me in a dream after her death, as a dragonfly. She had promised me that if it was possible to communicate after she died, she would, and ever since that dream, when I see a dragonfly I believe it’s Gwyn saying hello.

My friend Gwyn, saying hello via someone’s street number sign

We loved Brasserie le Donjon, not only for the delicious food, but also for the warm welcome. After lunch, it was on to our first winery visit: Domaine de l’Hortus, where we sampled several wines (they have so many, ranging from about $15 to over $100) and bought two bottles (the more modestly priced ones). Our second stop, at Chateau La Roque, was in a gorgeous setting with such a kind guide (her English is even worse than my French, so we spoke Franglish), and I fell a bit in love with one of their rosés. We also bought a bottle of their olive oil. 

Chateau La Roque

And that brought February to and end. Oh, but I did work a lovely puzzle that daughter Amelia gave me for Christmas. It was SO much more fun than that map of Montpellier! And now we’re in March, with the promise of spring! I’m grateful.

Such a fun puzzle to work on rainy winter days!